On the shelf
“Growing Up Urkel”
By Jaleel White
Simon & Schuster, 336 pages, $29
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Jaleel White is feeling fairly good. “My spouse turned on the air-con,” he says from his lodge room in New York whereas on tour to advertise his new memoir, “Growing Up Urkel.” But Steve Urkel, as any shopper of ’90s popular culture can inform you, was something however cool. The character White performed from 1989 to 1998 on the hit sitcom “Family Matters” outlined the black nerd for TV viewers: saddle sneakers, braces, thick glasses, high-pitched, nasal voice. Sure, “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air” had Carlton (Alfonso Ribeiro), however he was extra of an incompetent, entitled preppy. Urkel was Poindexter personified.
White, now 47, will without end be tied to the character he created in a collection he primarily picked up and placed on his shoulders; Urkel solely arrived midway by means of the primary season, however rapidly turned the primary attraction. He does not disguise; it will be ineffective. “Growing Up Urkel” is just not “I Am Not Spock,” Leonard Nimoy’s insistent memoir about what differentiated him from the logic-obsessed Vulcan he performed on “Star Trek.” Instead it is one thing uncommon: a memory of a remarkably well-adjusted and good-humored former baby star who can nonetheless inform some tales about what he calls “the shark-infested waters of present enterprise.”
The major cause he wrote the ebook, he says, was fairly easy: “I wished to provide my mother and father their flowers whereas they’re nonetheless right here. All I see are these tales of showbiz tragedies. My mother and father did not know what the hell they have been doing, however a very powerful factor was that they meant effectively for me. My household and I actually understood little or no about leverage. We have been caught in appreciation mode. And I believe that is good to some extent.
Born in Culver City and raised in a middle-class Pasadena household, White was taught to work arduous and be pleased about what he had. He recalled that his mom made certain to maintain him from turning into an enormous head, asking folks on the set of “Family Matters” to continuously hold tabs on him. Expensive automobiles and designer garments weren’t an possibility; when he realized to drive he was pushing the household’s used Acura. He was completely satisfied to have the ability to keep kitted out in Nike gear (which turned simpler when skilled sports activities groups realized he was a basketball fanatic and despatched him containers of the most recent gear).
“When I began engaged on the present, I used to be a 12-year-old child who wished an audition and wished to get the job so my mother and father would get me a Sega Genesis,” he mentioned. Polite and chivalrous – his mother and father despatched him to etiquette faculty so he might be taught to be a gentleman – he writes of his first courting expertise with a mix of laughter and chagrin: “My mom had finished such a miraculous job defending me from Negative influences had really made me an overconfident and beneficiant dunce for teenage women.
In brief, he was child with good mother and father, qualities that did not all the time come in useful when it got here time for ABC to pay him commensurate with different TV stars. He writes that the collection’ producers dissuaded him from pursuing Urkel’s ancillary alternatives out of concern that he would develop into “overexposed.” In one of many ebook’s most telling anecdotes, a fourteen-year-old White is grounded by his mom after an argument. When his mother and father inform the producers of “Family Matters” that he’s ailing and can’t come to work, a collection of present baskets arrive on the White household house, together with the supply to ship a physician. White writes that ABC thought his household was enjoying “sick,” a typical ploy utilized by mother and father of kid stars in search of more cash. But when White returned to work the following day, his household made no requests. It seems they have been simply disciplining their son.
“That was in all probability my largest second of affect that we by no means realized,” White writes. “All these items have been acquired by me and my mother and father with such sincerity. My mother and father could even have felt responsible {that a} household dispute had led so many individuals to fret about my well being.”
White labored arduous within the years following “Family Matters.” He voiced Sonic the Hedgehog in a collection of Sega video games; extra lately he had roles within the TV collection “The Afterparty” and reverse Adam Sandler within the underrated basketball film “Hustle” (a shot he remembers fondly for his basketball video games). He is aware of he’ll all the time be Urkel to followers of a sure age, however he is completely satisfied when somebody on the road acknowledges him from one thing else, like his present gig internet hosting the CBS sport present “Flip Side.” “Now I host a sport present for the Boomers who known as me Urkel,” he says.
And millennials, who grew up Googling all the pieces, typically name it one thing utterly completely different. The title he grew up listening to.
“They name me Jaleel,” he says.